Freedom of speech and freedoms, in general, are taken advantage of way too much. I'm all for freedoms as long as a degree of respect is there. That's the problem with this world: not everyone has any respect. And when the reigns are released, anarchy can and typically does ensue.
I won't post the URL or forum's name but here is a popular webmaster/domaining forum that is totally unmoderaed. Te owners expect its users to behave & when they don't, a blind eye is cast across the bad. I've seen and personally made sales treas there that were crashed as soon as they were made. At NamePros, we protect against these things. Here, you can't leave snide posts in a sales tread like, "That thing's not worth s***. I wouldn't take that thing if you paid me to!" You can there but not here. We try to keep a business atmosphere here.
But we aren't 1/2 as strict as people are making us out to be. Most rule-breakers will break a rule and whine after they are caught. I stick for Wendy. And Michelle, Eric (Scorp), Janine, and all of us mods. When ppl sign up for account, they click "I agree to the rules." If you break a rule that you agreed to, even if you were too lazy to read the rules beforehand, it'd be your fault for it, not ours. Wendy gets most of the flack. Have you people sen the things she's infracted over? Or even me: Do you know what I've been through? One rule is that ya can't bump your sales thread more than once per 24 hours. One guy (who posted in this thread earlier, if I'm not mistaken) bumped his after about 5 hours. And then kept bumping threads early despite being told it's not allowed. And now he complains that Wendy is "over-modding." No, that's call moderating, not OVER-moderating. Another rule we have is about sending unsolicited sales PM's. The rules state SPECIFICALLY that your PM must offer what a buyer is looking for. Around last November, there was a guy offering a LLLL.com to someone who was looking for LLL.com's. After this seller and I spoke, he told me, "I figured my offer was close enough to what the buyer wanted." I replied that close enough won't cut it. If ya don't send what a buyer is asking for, it's considered spam. His reply? He called ME a "mod on a power trip" who enjoyed "bullying." He then called NP a trashy forum with "pu**y moderators."
People, if you speed down a highway, knowing that it's illegal to go above a certain MPH & choose to anyway, don't get cranky & complain if you get caught & get a ticket. Same here: if you're caught breaking a rule, DON'T WASTE ANYONE'S TIME telling other ppl that we're bad moderators, You broke a rule, one YOU AGREED TO ADHERE TO as soon as you signed up. Don't slander us for YOUR mistakes.
That goes with freedoms. If everyone would respect each other and we could live at peace, then cops wouldn't be need, courts would be unnecessary, and forum moderation wouldn't exist. Salt, there re those who trash sales threads and belittle ppl, for their own gratification. It's not an easy world: the real one an the one here in cyberspace. I support giving ppl freedoms to say as they shall but once it starts hurting others, it's a situation that needs looked into. Some ppl appreciate it. Others think that deleting a post and giving infractions is "over-modding." If you're not happy with the rules, just remember that they were in place fore anyone ever signed up for an account. And if you break a rule, expect a consequence. We are just trying to make NP a fun yet conductive domaining community. And modding is needed t keep it conductive. Freedoms only stretch as far as antagonists set the boundaries to.