Read, read, read
Case in point...
I bought a domain in November for $20 at expiry auction. Every domainer in the world had access to the domain, but passed (or overlooked) it for whatever reason. By March it was sold for $3250 @ (ROI of 162x).
*sold an October handreg recently for a similar return.
I've been able to do this now pretty regularly while waiting for larger offers on "better/best" domains.
It was not a hope, prayer, or a numbers game. I didn't reach out once to them, a buyer came to me. Most 'flippers' would have been happy with $200 - $400 and would move on. I was patient, I did my research, and was rewarded.
I stopped reaching out to people, and make them come to me. There is nothing passive about it... and like I said. The information is out there, but you have to want to learn and do the work yourself.
Isaac Newton was brilliant... but what he could not explain he attributed to 'God' and gave up searching. This is what even the most brilliant people do, what they can't explain something they attribute it to things like 'luck', 'hope', or 'prayer'.
You keep looking toward 'outbound sales' because that's what makes sense to you and it's all you know, but if you continue your search and continue to explore ways to sell domains - you will find another way
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I can tell you, outbound sales only minimizes your profit and devalues any domain you start promoting.
If you can't accept that, and won't do the research and open your mind... then who would be the lazy domainer then?
Just because someone decides not to pander their property for sale does not make them lazy.