I would have to disagree with the last premise, yes Rick Schwartz can turn down a $25,000 offer. I know many cannot and that's not about being a domainer, that's about real life. Yes there are people who have to take the money and run they cannot afford to be wrong, we can tell magical stories about what is and what should never be, but yes Rick Schwartz can be wrong, Frank Schilling can be wrong, the majority of members here who have not made $25,000 in total profit in their domaining lives cannot. Not if they have responsibilities, children, mortgages, other issues. No they cannot afford to take certain risks anyone telling them to do so imo is negligent.
Domaining is not the only industry either, I started trading stocks at 18 when I worked for a firm there were absolutely guys who could not afford to be wrong, and other guys shook out the weak hands
Definition of 'Weak Hands'
1. The intention of futures contract holders not to receive delivery of the underlying.
2. Retail traders in the forex market who abide by the conventional wisdom that when a pattern is broken, get out.
Investopedia Says
Investopedia explains 'Weak Hands'
1. Futures contract holders with weak hands are generally considered to be small speculators without the financial resources associated with the delivery and storage.
2. For example, retail traders with weak hands would place a stop at the bottom of a double bottom or at the top of a double top and once the pattern is broken, they would automatically be stopped out. Conversely, dealer and institutional traders will exploit this behavior by staying in once the pattern is broken, forcing the weak hands out before allowing the price to change direction and the pattern to correct itself.
http://www.investopedia.com/terms/w/weakhands.asp
Your other point about get names from poor people absolutely ask the guy who sold Camroulette.com to Adam Strong, he did not see $151,000 and he was never seeing that amount for that domain,
We will never have guidelines because there is nothing tying people together except for the fact that they frequent the same forums and blogs. The jealousy and hatred in this business rivals Hollywood.