My Ex Showed Up Today...

[dgridley]

I hadn't seen or heard from my ex-GF in almost 2 years now.. then today I get home and she had called 7 times while I was out and a few minutes after I got here she pulled up out front! She came in and we talked about an hour. She's in town to visit today and tomorrow and we're supposed to get together at some point for dinner before she goes back. I don't think she'd have come by if she was involved but I'm afraid to ask.. think I'll just let her volunteer but I've never stopped caring about her.. I'd still love to get back together at some point. Wish me luck!

 

[Compassion]

Good luck wished your way

:hearts:

 

[Jasonn]

Saying this not knowing the sitation or the reason you two broke up, i wouldn't take her back.

 

[Compassion]

Saying this not knowing the sitation or the reason you two broke up, i wouldn't take her back.

never had one of those off again on agains?

 

[weblord]

good luck, take your wife with you, don't get outside without her in this situations where temptation is near and lurking.

 

[Compassion]

dave is marrieD?

 

[dgridley]

Nope.. dunno why he thinks so. Thanks for the good luck wishes, btw.

dave is marrieD?

 

[maximum]

hadn't seen or heard from my ex-GF in almost 2 years now.. then today I get home and she had called 7 times while I was out and a few minutes after I got here she pulled up out front!
..............
She's in town to visit today and tomorrow

Potential stalker if you say "no"?

Just kidding :D Hope things work out for you, either way, Dave :tu:

 

[namenut]

Dave .... in one word you can have your answer.

"Roses"

If she has a boyfriend she will mention it. She will Say "Thank You but I can't accept them" if she is taken.

She will say "OMG ... I love them...My boyfriend never buys me Roses" if she has a boyfriend but wants a new one.

She will look up from the Roses and glance at you in only that way a wanting woman can ..... if you are "meat" :red: and on the menu.


Have fun
namenut

 

[AMDWarrior]

Good Luck with it..

 

[dgridley]

Haha.. she's not one for flowers, never liked them.. I think I'll play it cool and see what she has to say, if anything. If she doesn't say anything, I'll let her know before she leaves I still feel the same and the door is open.

Dave .... in one word you can have your answer.

"Roses"

If she has a boyfriend she will mention it. She will Say "Thank You but I can't accept them" if she is taken.

She will say "OMG ... I love them...My boyfriend never buys me Roses" if she has a boyfriend but wants a new one.

She will look up from the Roses and glance at you in only that way a wanting woman can ..... if you are "meat" :red: and on the menu.


Have fun
namenut

 

[weblord]

oh i see
:bingo:
i smell a comeback relationship
take a dog as chaperon

Nope.. dunno why he thinks so. Thanks for the good luck wishes, btw.

 

[Sabre]

If you're going out for dinner with her, just bring the subject around to relationships and such. If you make it subtle, you either A. don't look stupid if she is in a relationship B. don't seem too forward if she isn't.

 

[johname]

Hope it works out the way you want it to go. :hearts:







All my Ex's live in Texas- i just had to write that lol

 

[firefly]

beat over the head with a club and drag her back to your cave..just like any good cave man would...lol

Seriously, good luck man. Better to know than to live with "what ifs"

 

[MicroGuy]

I just hope she's not in this for your domains. Tell her you've exchanged your entire portfolio for a lot of 100 LLLLL.WS's and see if she sticks around. :blink:

Just kidding....things will be just fine. Good luck!

 

[Jasonn]

never had one of those off again on agains?

Not seeing someone for 2 year isn't exactly on again off again. It all depends on the situation really. If she left for some other guy and now comes back after getting bored with him, or had her fun and now shes ready to come back, taking her back just lets her know she can basically treat you however she wants and you'll just take it.

 

[James]

never had one of those off again on agains?

They happen but I think, if they do something serious nothing will stop them doing it again so why bother? (I don't believe in second chances)

Goodluck Dave, I hope that shes realised you're a great man and come running back.

 

[ALG]

My perfect advice to you: 2 scenarios

Dave: I knew you couldn't resist me

GF: "Oh Dave, I just had to see you, I am so sorry I haven't called except for 7 times, but 7 has always been my lucky number."

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Dave: I knew you couldn't resist me
GF: Well Dave, I am a recovering alcoholic and I am here to make mends with everyone I have hurt in the past. I am in this great relastionship with so and so and aahhh I just have to have closure before I can move forward with Guy B...

--

Anywho, I wish you the best of luck and I am sure everything will go fantastic

 

[Chef Patrick]

best of luck to you.

kind of strange though that after two years she tries to reach you.

like you said play it cool, don't make it easy on her. why did you guys break up to begin with? plus you said she's in town, how far away does she live?