@Cyphix I get those from time to time; there is never any point to engaging people like that. The only exception I ever allow in such cases are the very rare (like, twice in all these years that I can recall offhand) incidents when I got a response like that, from a person who worked at a place that clearly owned the sort of domains I'm trying to sell. Since
someone at that company clearly knows the value of domains and buys them, in those rare cases I sent an outraged response to the customer service/pr address for the company, with a copy of the e-mail that was sent to me. In both cases I got a written apology from up the food chain, and in one I got a sale at ask :D
And on a serious note, all this talk about templates and the value of being any number under 100% honest and such just serve to remind me why I contribute so infrequently to this thread anymore. Successful end user sales require certain elements -- without them, you're just a huckster, a glorified telemarketer working the numbers until you get a hit, and this gig won't be any more profitable than whatever you were pushing before you started pushing domains.
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Quality domains. Did you buy it on NamePros for $20? Chances are it's shit as far as the end user market goes. Did you hand reg it? Unless you have a very good understanding of the AdWords market, and some fairly sophisticated drop catching skills/software/service, it's shit as far as the end user market goes. In all the years I've been receiving "end user mails" from other domainers, I don't think I've seen a dozen domains that were even remotely interesting to me, and most of those that were the huckster didn't even own them; they were just trying to catch a middle on using my money to get a dropped domain.
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Quality research. As I have said innumerable times in this thread and similar ones, here and elsewhere, if you are sending 100 e-mails per domain, you might as well spend your time playing video poker. The odds of making a living at video poker with a modicum of knowledge and patience are about the same as the odds of making any worthwhile money blasting out your crappy domains, and at least playing video poker you aren't bothering anybody (and you might meet some interesting people in the process!) Serious end user prospects have at least one of the following characteristics:
a) They own multiple domains that are not attached to a brand or product that the company owns and sells, or other trademarked/copyrighted domains. ie. a travel company which owns a few hundred geolocal travel domains, a finance company which owns multiple keyword domains that point to branded properties etc. etc. etc.
b) They spend measurable amounts of money advertising on AdWords, for the phrase that matches your domain. These are
serious money prospects by the way, because they are already "renting" that phrase from Google.
c) The only exception to the above two would be the rare "non-domained" startup company, who is operating off of social networks and has not put up a serious website yet. There are many such opportunities out there; actually just had to censor myself because on second thought, not sure this is the place to post a list
Finally, serious end user prospects' domains are not hidden via whois privacy, MarkMonitor or other means, and the contact person listed in the whois can be found via LinkedIn or other professional networking sites. If a company is going out of its way to restrict contact, chances are you are pissing into the wind trying to get an e-mail through to them.
Bottom line on research, if you come up with more than 30 prospects for your domain, you probably need to trim your list; if you come up with more than 50, you definitely need to. If you come up with more than 100, you don't know what you're doing and will never succeed, because you are shooting yourself in the foot right out the gate.
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Realistic pricing. Seriously, nothing you hand regged last week is worth more than a couple of hundred dollars. The odd lotto winner level sale, say $500-$1,000, can be seen, but these are the exception, not the rule. Nothing you won at a SEDO auction for $200 yesterday, is worth $2,000 today. If it were worth $2,000 on the end user market, an investor smarter and better-funded than you would have bid it up to $1,000 or more. Don't be an idiot. You could make a fairly easy $100-$200 on a hand reg with proper research done, which I feel very very confident in saying is more money on a single domain sale than 95% of the registered users of this forum have ever made on a single domain -- but if you price it at $5,000 ONO, you're just going to chase off people who might have otherwise been buyers, because they think you'll never come down to earth.
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Actual negotiation and sales skills. If you don't know anything about e-mail and phone marketing, or about general sales and negotiation, you will get all the way down to the line on a domain, then get slaughtered by some lawyer who negotiates for a living. The biggest issue there, the biggest rule of sales that I think domainers either ignore or do not understand, is that
treating your sales prospects like idiots is suicide. You think they can't Google the domain and see it was just registered for reg fee (with a coupon!) or that you just purchased that "$5,000 domain" for $250 at AfterNIC? Alternately, you think the guy who is in charge of making expenditure decisions for a company that is spending $30,000+ a month on AdWords alone, is just going to take your word that a domain has the potential to save or make them money? You may not be dealing with professional domainers, but chances are you are dealing with professionals -- grant them a bit of respect, and save yourself from looking like an idiot/jackoff/scam artist.
Short version: good domains, good research, realistic pricing, sales skills. Make full time living in underwear, be hero to wife and kids and envy of friends etc.
Or just free associate until you come up with however many catchy-sounding domains you can afford with your current crop of GoDaddy coupons, and spam the shit out of a bunch of marginally relevant individuals, make some or even most of your money back, publish an ebook about the experience on ClickBank, collect medium-sized paycheck due to idiots buying your ebook, buy a used Cadillac, be broke as ever and have to start all over again. It's a tough decision, to be sure. But I recommend the first course.
Frank