Death in the family

[arejayell]

I have just found out that my aunt just died, she was like a second mother to me, she lived with us my whole life (when i lived back in michigan) at my parents house, she was my moms sister, she got in a bad car accident when she was 19 and lost both of her legs. My mom had her live in the house and it was nice because when my mom would be mad at me my aunt tami would not. She had a heart attack and it was fatal. Im not even sure if im able to get back to michigan for the funeral as i just put all my money up in my house i bought back in april here in vegas. Im told to remember the good times but at this moment its hard.

Well im off of the computer for a bit my rant is over.

 

[AMDWarrior]

Sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers..

 

[weblord]

condolence GpdBiz hang there tight and be strong.

 

[Mr. Websites]

I am so sorry about your loss; we are all here for you if there's anything you may need. Please stay strong, your mother needs you the most right now.

 

[briman1970]

I lost my favorite aunt three years ago. She was my mom's twin sister and virtually my second mother. She took care of us as children when my mother was going through multiple surgeries for a back problem and then later when she had trouble getting off the meds.

My aunt "Twin" (both her and my mother had that nickname) was 55 when she passed. She had a heart attack while she was sleeping and stayed on life-support for several days before they decided to pull the plug. It was VERY hard for me to take her death because it was unexpected and my wife was less than two months away from having our first child delivered. I lived out of state and when my aunt talked to me on the phone, all she could talk about was seeing "that little baby girl". She frequently said that she couldn't believe I was finally going to be a dad. (I got married in my early thirties, which is LATE by the standards of my hometown.)

The day of her funeral, someone (I still don't know who) put me on the pallbearer list. I did not want to do it, but I went through with it anyway. I think it may have helped me accept her death in some small way and I'm glad now that I went through with it.

I still feel like something is missing every now and then. Especially when I need to talk to someone or have good news to share. It feels like I'd imagine a person who's lost their pinky-finger must occasionally feel. I never knew she was so important and how much I depended on her until she was taken away.

Acceptance is a long journey, but you and your family will make it, in time. I pray that you and yours will find peace in each other while you're coming to terms with all of this. I understand how you're feeling and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. God bless.

 

[Michelle]

Its not a rant... Thats what makes nps special its not just a site its a community.


I am really sorry hugs

 

[.X.]

i am sorry to hear of your loss,My codelences to you and your family

 

[arejayell]

Thanks all a lot!!, Im now waitin on the airlines to get back with me on a discount flight, this could not of come at a worse time, the time of the month the mortgage and bills are due.

And thanks briman i appreaciate your words

So now I wait to see how nice the airlines can be.

Thanks again

 

[dgridley]

A death in the family or any death of someone close to you is always tragic.. sorry to hear about your loss.

 

[Anthony]

Sorry to hear about your loss. Do remember the good times, it will hopefully help.