You keep minimizing these things while agreeing they are bad. This happen all the time, it is now policy in every major school district in the USA.
I live in a small town with about 80% conservative support, probably the largest US flag in our state flying in our little town. When a large group of high school children who became "confused" about their gender it was traced back to a few adults encouraging it.
It is a mental illness. A man with feminine traits is not a woman. A women with masculine preferences is not a man.
Drag queen story hour is being used to indoctrinate young children not old enough to understand what sex or gender is. No surprise, multiple "story" tellers have turned out to have a history of bad behavior with children.
This is not normal or healthy.
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