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I never really thought about making money online until I came across this forum about a year and a half ago. I always liked coding and I often did little html/javascript projects on free hosts, and ran some forums on free forum providers (like proboards), but I never really made my own site. That changed around January of '08 when I decided I wanted more than a forum, I wanted to make a website for underground metal music because I love the genre. I did a lot of research on names I would like, not really names that would be valuable. I found a really obscure name from a mythology which was perfect, but it was taken. I ended up settling on UndergroundMetal.net - but it wasn't the name I wanted so the project never got off the ground. I joined this forum about four months after that, looking for advice on how to go about getting the name I really wanted. Of course the responses were generally "find another name" which was obvious, but not what I was looking for. :P

By that time I already had registered my screen name, yilduz.com, for my own site about whatever I wanted it to be about. After joining this site, I decided reselling domains could be very profitable, but I didn't really know anything about it - so I started purchasing worthless domains from members here, and registering a ton of .info domains from Godaddy, because they were all cheap. I later watched every one of them expire as my reg fee for the names were swirling down the drain.

I decided to slim down. I went from about 100 domains to about 30 (including domains for friends and family). I only have a handful that are really meant for me, whether it be for development or otherwise. I sold a lot of them in lots on ebay to try to make back a few dollars of the reg fees, and watched many more of them expire.

My main domains are getting close to renewal time, my hosting is getting close to renewal time, so I started thinking about all of the money I've spent on trying to make money online. I didn't sell everything I own, I didn't end up homeless, I have never gone hungry because of this industry; but the time and money I've invested in the internet with the dream of making money is a bit ridiculous considering what I've earned (or haven't earned, if you will) in return.

I've learned a lot, though. I've learned (vaguely) what a good domain is, what a bad domain is, and what a mediocre domain is. I've learned a lot of PHP, MySQL, and coding techniques in general. I've learned a lot about affiliate marketing, search engine optimization (both on-site and off-site), and a lot more about the internet in general. I'm the kind of person that likes to improve myself in any way I can - so this has been very important to me.

As I proofread this post, I realize that it looks like one of those "I quit" threads. This is, in fact, the complete opposite. The purpose of this thread is to be a marker and a motivator. As much failure as I've endured over the last year and a half, I never thought of giving up. At every brick wall, the thoughts in my mind were always on how to get around it, or how to tear it down. However, I've lost a lot of steam through all of this. My motivation and dedication have been waning for a long time now, as I've been finding more and more reasons to just play video games. The marker that this thread is intended to be is me putting the uniform back on, and to start the warm up. In the last week or so I've had a couple of talks with people that I look up to in this industry, I've read a couple of ebooks, and started reading my industry idols' blogs again. I will now begin preparing.

I want 2010 to be a good year. Not just for me, but for everyone here. I've seen a lot of other people getting discouraged by failure, being broke, not being where they want to be. I intend to use the rest of 2009 to study, learn, finance, and get my plan completely in order. When January comes, I will tear into the web like a determined football team after halftime. I know the journey will be uphill, and nothing will happen overnight - but I will profit in 2010. I challenge anyone else that has been in a similar situation to do the same. Take a short breather, look at everything from the outside, revise your plan, and tear into 2010 with the ferocious intensity of a hungry tiger. Set your goals and measure your results, figure out where you need to improve and attack.

Who's with me? I don't want to see anyone giving up.
 
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Humility is brilliant .... passion is beautiful ... Pain is pure.

Very well stated yilduz. I admire, well beyond respect, a
man/woman that can self examine one's self and offer a
harsh sincere critique. This shows a level of maturity,
sensibility and a firm grasp on reality

Your post should and will serve many as just what you
intended it to be. Inspirational ..... Honest and simple
and real.

Good luck in 2010 and perhaps we will cross paths in pursuit
of "that" great year. :gl:


NN
 
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"However, I've lost a lot of steam through all of this."

The fact that you're still going is what will separate you from the others. It's not easy to run an online business; but if you keep pushing through, you will find your way. You have that sticktoitiveness, and some times that's all you need, but with a plan, it gets a whole lot easier.

Good luck and think your plan through, write it down with pen and paper, and then adjust as needed while you actually move it forward; that is Napoleon Hill's big secret.
 
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great thread. as namenut suggested, it is very mature to sit back and re-evaluate your position every now and then, and to adjust your path accordingly. many people do not take the time to sit and audit themselves, and end up sinking more and more time/money into the wrong things. even worse are those who try to get others into their sinking boat.

it's also good that you've slimmed down, which will allow you to better focus on a few key things instead of trying to do everything aimlessly. i'm glad to hear that all of these ventures haven't resulted in you homeless/hungry/etc.

studying and planning in 2009 should help you save money in 2010 so :tu:.
 
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GREAT post Yilduz! i admire your self-reflection and willingness to put it out there.... helps to keep yourself accountable and will undoubtedly help others new to the industry and going into the locker room with confidence shaken and bruised.... i wish you all the best in your learning and preparation in 09 and in working towards your goals in 2010 and beyond.... sp
 
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Sometimes it helps to step back, evaluate, figure out why things aren't working, and start with a new plan of action. The important thing is not to give up - if you quit you have 0% chance of success.

Best of luck to you in 2010 :)!
 
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To everyone that responded, I really appreciate your words. I honestly wasn't sure if this post would get any responses at all, I did it because I felt it was something I had to do. The post itself helped me to evaluate myself, and I just hope it can convince others in my position to do the same. I challenge all of you to step back and take a good, serious look at yourself, your work, your goals, and everything you do.
 
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Yes ! Lets tear into 2010 and make a GOOD profit ! Really motivating post ! Thanks alot i needed that .
 
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I would say its starting days as 1.5 year is still called starting days.

From my experience I can say I was averaging 50 USD profit per month for first 12 months.

It has been a long and painful journey.

Programming I started in 2001 :xf.love:

I started internet stuff in December 2004. Landed on this forum in Dec 2005 and now 2009 is about to end. :D

Had issues like getting frustrated. Losing the morale. Getting sick of it. But then you have to inspire yourself to be more stubborn and just go for your targets.

You would have lots of motivation and energy, If you make some financial target in your mind and then go after it.

Make some realistic financial target based on your current skills and market situation. Then go for it.
 
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very honest and inspiring,thank you..and best wishes for a prosperious and happy 2010!
 
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Great Inspiring post.. Lets hope 2010 gonna be the profitable year for all domainers.....
 
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