Efface:
1 : to eliminate or make indistinct by or as if by wearing away a surface <coins with dates effaced by wear>; also : to cause to vanish <daylight effaced the stars>
2 : to make (oneself) modestly or shyly inconspicuous
selfeffacing.com = I think value only in developing. No 'kool' factor or keywords as you know, so little value to resellers; but a highly descriptive name that is ideal for therapy/interest groups. I assume you had that in mind... it's a bit too long and bland of a name for doing anything 'fun' with, a play on the humorous side of negating one's soul, har de har.
actorsactor.com = surprisingly strong. I'd still say very low resellers $, but how are your marketing skills to acting groups... or L.A. firms? BTW, I have maletalent.com on my available list. Very usable/descriptive, but don't know if I'd ever reg it so anyone's welcome to it
fargreater.com = for an uplifting site; for self-improvement. Still little value to resellers, but marketed/developed...
dncodes.com = there's a name that a domainer can sink teeth into, immediately brings some meanings to mind. Easier for anyone to value.
resellers = hi xx to low xxx
I like the first 3 names better, since I always enjoy names that tickle my imagination and show cleverness. Unfortunately, as you well know, they're a hard sell and need a very strong impetus, whether that be marketing energy or development energy. The more tech-obvious like dncodes just sell themselves.