tpruby, interesting post. What makes me wonder is why I would disagree with just about everything you say; and I don't mean that in a negative way. I honestly can't follow what you see, and that makes me curious as to why.
I only follow a few trends that Iโm interested in, so I'm not really sure how people are doing with other domain investments. But for some weird reason, most of the people I associate with, are doing very well with their investments. I can honestly say that I don't chat with anyone who has lost money overall with their domain investments; and that's not by choice.
I'm sorry to hear you might have lost money investing with domains. Did you manage to buy any LLLL.com's at reg fee when they were available? These are the things I've been watching most recently. Personally I've never had a $XXX,XXX sale, but my best was $18,500 from a reg fee domain name 3 years ago; and amongst the multiple low $X,XXX sales I have each year, I do get the occasional $5-9K sale on top of them.
I couldn't make this kind of profit with $7,000 in the stock market, but thatโs all it costs me each year for reg fees. Doing this has put me through 5 years of college and university; and it will pay the bills for law school. Maybe youโre listening to the wrong people.
Hereโs my professional opinion, buy a little of everything, and a lot of nothing. But as one fellow member to another, you donโt sound very happy about being here in the domaining community; you may want to find another hobby/investment. I say this with no intent to piss you off, I wrote this response without emotion.