More to the point... have you tried to contact someone of a higher authority than your transfer agent at Sedo?
Why worry about lost money when you really haven't even really followed any process yet. You haven't heard for three days? Does that include the weekend? They don't work 24x7 - your "transfer agent" will work 9-5 or something. You have to work with them for a little bit.
In your Sedo account - add a statement that you urgently need to know status of the transfer, what is being done, what can be done, and if it is indeed canceled the process to get your refund with date if possible. If you don't hear anything for 2 days - call someone higher in the company.
Some Sedo employees are members here. There is a thread dedicated to Sedo - maybe add a POLITE post pointing them here - proving that you are reasonable and I'm sure it will get resolved by the end of the week without going into a sordid history of failed transactions. After all, there are going to be many ad experiences when you "broker" (and I use the term loosely) as many sales as they do.
I did it all. I am not going to beg anyone for my own money, plus when they messed up the sale (and blamed the seller). There is even an "invoice" that the refund has been issued, yet no money has entered my Paypal account yet. The point is, if it was an innocent mistake or my mistake, I would not mind to wait a week, but now it is their screw up and they are making interest from the money they got from me and even if its pennies, it is a matter of principle. Not recommended.
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Definitely, if you have paid Sedo the money, I think it's fair that they pay you back. Unless they screwed up and released the funds first, after which they tried to push the responsibility onto you.
Look what SEDO are posting on my domain transfer account after i paid them (via paypal) and they confirmed that they received my payment (now they want me to wire them more money!!):
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"PayPal just informed us that a temporary hold has been placed on the payment you sent for the domain xxxxxxxxxxx.com.
PayPal will sometimes place a hold on legitimate payments for security
reasons or upon request of the buyer. In order to have this temporary hold/dispute removed PayPal requests additional information about the payment from Sedo and you. To send the information please log in to your
PayPal account, and click the "Resolution Center" tab. Alternatively, you can send the funds to us via a wire payment to get the pending hold resolved.
In case that you have placed a dispute or claim at the PayPal payment due to open request, please contact us directly. We will be pleased to help you to
resolve any problems.
Please note we have temporarily suspended the domain transfer until the hold on the payment has been resolved, or until we have received the complete payment via wire.
We appreciate your understanding in this matter and thank you in advance for
your support.
Please do not hesitate to contact me, should you have any questions."
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They are trying to keep my money? They are still talking about a domain transfer a day after they told me the refund is on its way! There is NO hold on my Paypal account and Paypal would email me if there was indeed a HOLD made on the $XXX payment but there is NONE.
I will be reporting Sedo to BBB and FTC as the least. Apologies will not be enough because they wasted hours and days of my time. When I mess up a business deal I always 100% offer and pay the customer either some amount or send them a valuable gift as the least.