JavaScript can bust out of the iFrame if this is on the frame src page:
<script language="JavaScript">
<!--Break out of frames
if (top.frames.length!=0)
top.location=self.document.location;
//-->
</script>
To find out what page the source is in ANY way you can:
1) Right click and view source, find the frame and look at what src equals
2) A lame PHP script could load the page and search the source code for iframe src=" and scrap whatever it is
3) If the iframe has an ID, Javascript can do it by document.getElementById('iFrameID').src (you could use this with the above bust out script, if you wanted to put it on the page that has the iFrame)