Really need help

[tony84]

i was in a club lastnight with work and ended up pulling (kissing) some girl from work who i dont like (looks or personality shes just a horrible person and walks round like shes gods gift and she really isnt), i was really drunk and i know thats a bad excuse and i dont normally do this but how do i get out of it?

someone from my team seen it so how do i get to live it down? and how do i say to her i neever called because.... without hurting her feelings which im pretty sure i wont but not 100%

 

[Cobalt]

i was in a club lastnight with work and ended up pulling (kissing) some girl from work who i dont like (looks or personality shes just a horrible person and walks round like shes gods gift and she really isnt), i was really drunk and i know thats a bad excuse and i dont normally do this but how do i get out of it?

someone from my team seen it so how do i get to live it down? and how do i say to her i neever called because.... without hurting her feelings which im pretty sure i wont but not 100%

You have 2 options:

A) You talk to this girl face to face and explain EXACTLY what you are explaining to us. You tell her you weren't sober and apologize for your actions. You don't start an argument or tick her off. You may also want to explain the situation to your other co-worker who saw you 2 kiss.

B) You act like nothing has happened. You go along with your normal daily routines and life. If she brings it up, laugh about it....or, if its not a laughing matter, You should bring up option A) to her and explain your actions.

 

[AsclepiusZ]

just blame everything on yourself and you will be fine

 

[Cobalt]

just blame everything on yourself and you will be fine

I knew I was forgetting something

C)

But I don't think this is time for jokes.

 

[tony84]

well i have some good news, nobody mentioned it today...but the girl wasnt in and another woman that seen it all wasnt in either so theres still a chance something could get mentioned,

awww its horrible

 

[gchick]

just forget about it and if ever she brings it up...go to option a

 

[Rob]

I used to make a point of getting in with all of the women at my workplace. I guess we all different! Are you married or have a girlfriend? If not then I dont understand the problem... ?

 

[ZuraX]

The problem is he doesnt like her...

 

[Rob]

But I dont see as it matters, we all do stuff with people we dont like. If he dont want any more of her and if she asks just say 'no thanks'. :/

 

[White-Doc]

Just lie and say it never happened :/

 

[PolurNET]

:o

You gotta first learn from EXPERIENCE:
http://www.namepros.com/showthread.php?t=109361

Don't tell me you're still doing the same things? :notme:

:lol:

 

[def1]

lol you need to stop drunkingor learn how to hold your alchohal.

but seriosuly I would suggest saying you dont remember since usually people dont remember what happens when they were drunk

 

[adam_uk]

ohh kissing a girl when drunk is nothing

its when you kiss a man you have to worry.

just say yeh u did it, so what. act like u dont care, if u do that all will be forgotten. works for me.

 

[PoorDoggie]

Blame it on her up-bringing, then she will get really annoyed at you and never want to talk to you again. Works a dream.

 

[tony84]

im more bothered about my reputation
i was in the pub yesterday and 1 of my mates said he seen me talking to her id better not have done anything so i kinda just said i was hammered and dont remember much but i wouldnt do that.

and no im not married and dont have a gf but shes really bad and thinks shes something special which makes it worse, we shall see on tuesday though

 

[Cobalt]

im more bothered about my reputation
i was in the pub yesterday and 1 of my mates said he seen me talking to her id better not have done anything so i kinda just said i was hammered and dont remember much but i wouldnt do that.

and no im not married and dont have a gf but shes really bad and thinks shes something special which makes it worse, we shall see on tuesday though

Hey, best of luck on Tuesday...don't worry about it dude....I know you will take care of it....just go :kickass: