Help, drunkeness

[tony84]

right lastnight i went out with 3 or 4 people from work 1 being this girl i like but all was ok until about 12-1am when some guy touched her which she said just ignore him not wanting to cause a fight or anything so i ignored it anyway me and this girl had a dance and a laugh and everything was ok, until a bit later when 1 of her best mates (a lad) found out i liked her (i was a bit drunk) i dont think he will say anything but then me and this girl were texting eachother on the way home and i kind of said some things not too bad i dont think but what excuse can i use if i find out she doesnt feel the same way to avoid any problems at work ?

Tony

 

[Sabre]

Just say you were drunk, simple!

 

[ThreeD]

would there be any problems at work if you two were together as a couple?

Saying that you're drunk prolly won't help, because that's usually when people are most honest about things and feelings. If her feelings are the same as yours, great. If not - try to be her friend and see if things can develop

I don't see how it can cause problems at work, unless your are the boss or she is.

 

[Sabre]

would there be any problems at work if you two were together as a couple?

Saying that you're drunk prolly won't help, because that's usually when people are most honest about things and feelings. If her feelings are the same as yours, great. If not - try to be her friend and see if things can develop

I don't see how it can cause problems at work, unless your are the boss or she is.

It's always worked for me! :hearts:

 

[domain4u]

tony, its much easier sometimes when a friend informes her first rather than you

If you havn't already told her, and you know he has told her, maybe its time to let her know how you feel, leave it too long and it wont be too good!

Whats the worse that can happen, she says she doesn't feel the same way! its not like she is going to hate you for it, unless you become confident enough to ask, its useless to like someone in secret and not let them know. So i think that party was great for you maybe its a step for you to go further and let her know how you feel.

All girls like men to be confident, you will be amazed, many girls actually feel the same way as you but wait for you to make the first move.

 

[ThreeD]

It's always worked for me! :hearts:

Must be the women in UK hehe, for some reason the scandinavian chix don't buy the "I was drunk" story

 

[domain4u]

Must be the women in UK hehe, for some reason the scandinavian chix don't buy the "I was drunk" story

Haha, nah, it wont work in the uk too, a friend of mine got severely beaten up by this girl's boyfriend, but he was truely drunk. If he was to tell the boyfriend he was drunk or even the girl i don't think it would help much.

TBH being drunk is the worse time to ask a girl out, drink 1-2 drinks MAX before doing it, dont do it when drunk, the chances then are VERY SLIM.

 

[ThreeD]

TBH being drunk is the worse time to ask a girl out, drink 1-2 drinks MAX before doing it, dont do it when drunk, the chances then are VERY SLIM.

hehe yeah with a tiny buzz asking women out can turn into a lot of fun - and most likely they will say yes. If you're so drunk you can't remember your own name, you stutter and can't stand upright - it's a given the girl will say "HELL NO"

However, I prefer being sober when asking a woman out. That way I'm sure I get her correct cell # and last but not least, remember her name. It hasn't failed yet! :D

 

[Sabre]

Must be the women in UK hehe, for some reason the scandinavian chix don't buy the "I was drunk" story

Or maybe, its just my age group?



Its more generally accepted as an excuse for teens :p

 

[dweeb]

If you are really sure she doesn't feel the same way about you, then I'd say, go with the 'I was drunk and wasn't thinking' excuse. A little flimsy, but hopefully, with a little luck, you might get away with it.

 

[ammo]

Yeah just say you were drunk off your face. If your lucky it will work!!

 

[Zeeble]

Haha, nah, it wont work in the uk too, a friend of mine got severely beaten up by this girl's boyfriend, but he was truely drunk. If he was to tell the boyfriend he was drunk or even the girl i don't think it would help much.

TBH being drunk is the worse time to ask a girl out, drink 1-2 drinks MAX before doing it, dont do it when drunk, the chances then are VERY SLIM.

Surely, if you tell a guy that you fancy his Girlfriend is a compliment? right?

 

[.Matt]

would there be any problems at work if you two were together as a couple?

Saying that you're drunk prolly won't help, because that's usually when people are most honest about things and feelings. If her feelings are the same as yours, great. If not - try to be her friend and see if things can develop

I don't see how it can cause problems at work, unless your are the boss or she is.

Tell me about it, tried that game before saying I was drunk :blink: . Got the "you're most honest when you are drunk".. story

 

[domain4u]

Surely, if you tell a guy that you fancy his Girlfriend is a compliment? right?

Not to some big boys it isn't... i think the chap was looking for a fight anyways...

 

[tony84]

she might like me im not sure, i get cuddles and little pecs on the cheek and things and were really good mates dunno if its a littl e more than that though

and there wouldnt be a problem at work as such 1 of would just get moved if everyone found out however our manager is really good so i think he would leave it unles it was causing problems, but its just if she doesnt feel the same it would be a bit awkward

 

[domain4u]

tony, be a man, go upto her and tell her, better you than her friend telling her first

Women like confident men. be confident, as far as you are aware she likes you, and she may share the SAME feelings too, you will NEVER know till you ask, dont wait for her to make a move!

GooD luck to you.