With the addition of this post, we believe everything has been clarified and we're marking this as resolved.
To respond to the edits you added after posting:
Do I need to explain that those fees don't just vanish into thin air and the buyer needs to pay ... which is against the rules?
Most of the time, there are no fees with that payment option. However, there are circumstances that include fees such as when you are sending money to a seller in certain countries.
Here's the rule you're referring to:
- Rule 6.1.7. Sellers are responsible for paying all transaction fees except those the buyer could have avoided or the buyer chooses to pay...
Therefore, if the buyer sees a fee when paying with this payment method, then the buyer has the right to deduct the fee amount from the payment amount sent to the seller as per rule 6.1.7. Or, the buyer and seller can agree to another payment method. Or, the buyer can decide/agree to pay the fee. The rules are guidelines and to help.
Do I need to explain that it is a lot less safe to use PayPal Friends and Family since you give up ALL protection?
This is why we do not recommend using the payment method with anyone you do not fully trust (i.e., friends or family).
If someone has that as the only payment option and you do not trust them, then you should not make a deal with them (e.g., don't bid on their auction). However, that is the buyer's choice to make and not ours.
PS: You erased one of my bids and then you notified me it was binding. Well that's some professional behavior there... Way to go mods...
It sounds like a mistake was made and then corrected. We're all human and mistakes are inevitable, but that doesn't mean it's unprofessional.
Please provide more details about this incident if you'd like us to investigate.
Edited to link to where this secondary topic is continued: https://www.namepros.com/threads/1172385/