Was this problem my own fault?
12/23/05-The buyer paid.
1/4/06- Against my registrar's advice, to only unlock domain when ready to transfer, I left my domain unlocked for seven days. Concerned about the unlocked status, I informed Sedo I would lock my domain in 2 days if no action was started.
1/4/06- Sedo replied: I advised the buyer again to start the domain transfer. If he doesn't start the transfer in the next 3 days we will start the transfer through our Godaddy account.
1/9/06- Received this from Sedo: The status of the domain has been changed to Register lock. In this status it is not possible to transfer domain. In order to start the transfer please unlock the domain and inform us once you did so. I immediately informed Sedo that I had unlocked the domain.
1/16/06- After seven days and no request for transfer, I locked my domain.
1/17/06- Received a request for transfer and forwarded the security codes to Sedo.
1/24/06- Sedo informed me the transfer had been denied because of lock status. My fault, I forgot to unlock domain. I informed Sedo I unlocked domain.
1/31/06- 7 days and no transfer. I informed Sedo that I had another request for this domain and to please tell the buyer that if he still wanted the domain he must complete transfer by 2/3/06. Sedo thanked me for the message and said they had informed the buyer.
2/1/06- Message from Sedo: The buyer informed me he has started transfer request through his GoDaddy account. Upon receipt, please forward the transaction ID and security code to us.
2/3/06- I never received a transfer request but when I checked today, my domain was no longer in my account. I checked whois and it had been transferred to GoDaddy. I'm hoping that Sedo did this using the first security codes I sent them on the 17th. I can't get an answer from Sedo because it's a weekend. I checked with Godaddy and they said the transfer has been denied, although it shows up in whois as reg. at GoDaddy. I guess I will have to wait until Monday to see what Sedo says. I really like Sedo except for the fact that they don't have time (or maybe the patience) to help
a first time seller. Was I overly concerned about leaving my domain unlock for several weeks? If I had to do it over again, I would stipulate that the sale must be completed in maybe 15 days or the sale agreement would become null and void. This could cost me a sale but at least I would know if the sale is legit in a shorter time. I have sold through Escrow.com and had my check, in hand, in less than 10 days so I know it doesn't take this long. I know this was probably my fault for being paranoid about unlocked domains. Am I the only one? Is it safe?