Deaths...

[ruan]

On the January 3rd, 2006, the Police officer cam into our house. He slightly looked arround our guest room, and finally said: "Your Dad was involved in the auto crash last night, bud", and he have putted his hand on my shoulder "what your name again? Ruan?". I looked up and staired at his deep brown eyes and asked, "Is my Father feeling good?", it was the only thing i could ask him at that freezing point, when I heard that my Dad got into the auto crash. "I am sorry Ruan, he is dead", as the officer said these words I deeply looked inside my soul and started crying, even knowing that i am 14, I will never care if someone will say that I am crying like little boy, but at that moment I cried deeply into my soul. I hoe people which read my story will understand me.

How did it happen?
-I have found out in online news section, and it shocked me when I read the story, and I don't know what you will think, but here the link for those news: http://www.canada.com/edmontonjournal/news/story.html?id=c12eadb1-f091-4467-8092-81253acc38e3&p=1

-Thank you for understanding me and for reading my story, I just wanted to share it with someone, and I don't even know why do i want to share it, but in some moments when you will feel bad you will have the feeling that you want to share with someone.



-Ruan Kanhodjaev

 

[maroulis]

even though I can't personally relate to loss of family (knock on wood) I do offer you my utter most sincere condolences for your loss..

I've read the story, nothing but a tragic accident and i'm lost for words as your dad was of such young age!!...

definately NOT a nice way to start 2006, but hang in there.....

all the best.

 

[Morph]

I understand how you feel, not exactly but i do.
Trust me, it only ever gets better.

Sorry, this is an aweful way to start 2006.

 

[Epic]

Sorry to hear that man...

Hope the rest of 2006 will go much better for you.

 

[Maverick]

My condolescences go out to you and your family.

 

[Momo]

I am so sorry to hear that, my sincerest condolences to you.

 

[gchick]

sorry to hear that....

 

[smub]

i feel sorry for you.... yesterday my brother-in-law's mother died ... and he was crying also ...

A bad start of a new year for you guys

 

[msfedxx]

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

 

[ruan]

smub - sorry for you brother-in-law lost too, and thank you everyone for trying to help me moraly and supporting me at this sad moment, thank you everyone, and take care of your friends and reletives, and please be careful on the roads, I don't want anyone to have looses...thank you guys again...

-Ruan Kanhodjaev

 

[Rom]

Sorry to hear that.

It is very difficult to lose your dad at that age...

And don't care at all about people who say crying is for babies and stuff like thats. We all cry.

 

[graywolf30]

Oh Ruan, I am so sorry for your loss! I'm glad that you felt you could share something like this with all of us. If there is anything that I can do, please feel free to contact me by PM.

You and your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Renee

 

[Rainbow]

So sorry to hear that! You'll be included in my prayers!

 

[dgridley]

Very sorry to hear of your loss.. my sympathies.

 

[DN Tycoon]

Yeah sorry for your loss Ruan Kanhodjaev

 

[Mels]

I'm sorry to hear this. My heart and prayers goes out to you and your family.

 

[True_Snake]

Very sad to hear this news Ruan. I heard of this on the news, and I had no idea that it would affect a fellow NP'er.

Remember always Ruan, you dad is in a better place now. Keep strong, and work hard and make him proud of you.

My sincere condolences.



True_Snake

 

[capiche]

Very sorry to hear about this. I can't even imagine how it must feel, but be strong and hang in there. I'm sure that's what he would have wanted you to do.

 

[boja]

Sorry to hear of your loss ...

 

[RJ]

Ruan, I am so sorry. My heart goes out to you and your family.