Hmm...i see what you mean, i can only appologise - i will contact the guy that "designed" the site and see what he has to say. Although its pretty different, its clear that it was used for ideas & inspiration. Thanks for bringing that to my attention talkhomebusiness.
Edit: just looking at it, its mainly just the homepage thats taken your layout ideas - I'll see if i can modify the layout bits and make it more unique.
Edit 2: I have modified the layout to the best of my abilitys - i think its safe to say it no longer looks like your site. I sincerely apologise for what happened.