No matter how wonderful you are, there will be some women who (even though they enjoy your company) just don't want to sleep with you. For whatever crazy reason.
Instead, you can have an uncomplicated relationship and an attractive date - which will attract other women. A guy with an attractive woman is "verified" in some weird way. As Tom said above. Even if they are told you're just friends.
Marketers call it "social proof." In an auction, it's lots of bidders.
If a successful domainer wants a name, others may want it more. There's an element of "it must be worth something if so-and-so wants it." Even though all domainers have some crap names in their portfolio.
Maybe the first .com name I went over $100 on, I bid up past $350 at Godaddy (back when you could get decent names there for well under $100). I felt pretty safe because somebody was willing to pay $340. It was registered in several other extensions as well. Years later, I still have that name. Never received a single inquiry on it. The other bidder? Who knows what his motives were. I may have to keep that name the rest of my life!