On your main page, every thing revolves around your logo, try sprucing up the regular text on your page to fit that flow. You should also put a snippet of what it is exactly your site offers somewhere on the main page; us reviewers where only able to figure out what it was about because you told us in a separate post, how will everyone else know?
The selection page is very... well, ugly. It needs a flow, right now it is just a bunch of bland elements with no style or flavor thrown together.
To give you an a better understanding of what I mean by this:
I had all intentions of sending a kiss to see how well it was put together, however when I reached your selection page I was very dissuaded. Just looking at it made me feel like I would have to work to actually send a kiss. This is a shame because the process of sending one involves very little input.
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To answer your actual question at hand:
Sure your website has potential, but then all websites do; it is just a matter of how well you market your target audience.