I would hope that there is a lot going on behind the scenes that is actually moving the Iraqi government somewhat forward. Although I tend to feel the same way...that the war can never be won...I do believe that the Iraqi's want the bloodshed to stop which may actually lead to a positive change when they realize that they actually have some of that power to make it stop. I think they need to find that their voices will be heard. Then things might change.
I guess the tough part is that it's hard to change thoughts, opinions, and attitudes quickly. Time needs time.