Using Multiple Drop Catchers..

I am new at this, so if anyone can tell me this is normal, or not, then that would be awesome..

I found a domain yesterday I liked while searching the pending deletes list at pool that was deleting the next day (the delete day is today).

I backordered though pool, snapnames & namejet.

Now the statuses:

Namejet: "Activity on this domain is temporarily locked while awaiting the auction to begin" with pending deletion status.

Pool: "Domain deletes on 2010-02-05" & "Added on 2010-02-05"

Snapnames: "Status: High Bid" & "High Bidder: You" and I am bidding against "regularnames," the only other bidder. We both have the same initial bids, but for some reason I am the high bidder. Also, 2.5 hours left in this auction.

Question:

1) Did pool, snapnames, or namejet catch the drop?
2) If Snapnames got it, and I am bidding against this guy and we have the same bid, should I bid more even though I am listed as highest bidder?
3) Is this the normal process?

Again, I am new at bidding on domains - stepping up from regging fresh domains from godaddy , if that was not enough info then let me know.