There are too many unknown variables here. How did you determine your built in graphics โbrokeโ? Maybe you get no picture because the mother board is blown, the CPU is blown, the power supply is malfunctioning, your monitor is bad, you have an IDE cable plugged in upside down, or any of the countless other things that could cause you to get no video.
If you have established that the on-board video is the problem, and you have established that the on-board video takes preference over any other card, and the on-board video is enabled and defaults to enabled, and there is no way to disable it through hardware then you will need to change the BIOS settings without video. While there is almost no possibility that this could be the case there are a number of ways to deal with it if there were.
One would be to simply find someone with the same BIOS and ask him to step you through the key strokes to do what you need. I've actually done this for people before, so it's not as far fetched as it sounds.
Another would be to make a boot disk that writes the correct BIOS settings to nvram. If you know how to do this then no explanation is needed, and if you don't then an explanation is pointless
A more complicated method that I have used on many occasions is to install VNC on the machine remotely and then connect using VNC. To change the BIOS settings I used a virtualiser, like VMWare or bochs, to start a virtual machine in a window and enter bios setup from there.