ShadowWind Manor has a great advertising venue as we provide free 3D models (donated by artists), so we are not as well connected link wise, but we get a pretty good amount of traffic through the system from these venues as well as some other features we have.
Shouldn't be too hard to find sites ZuraX that will do links for webhosting resources. They seem to be all over the place. The key is finding ones that have good PR...
I joined LinkPartners, but I'm starting to see where that is not that great. I've gotten almost no visitors from the sites that have asked to link exchange because what I'm finding out is while we have one page of links, they just bury you in a huge directory of links that no one will ever find you. It's hard enough to get people to click on banners in the front page, much less buried deep, so it's one sided.