3 months??? Does Googlebot even visit your site?
If GB doesn't visit then you need some links on sites with lots of traffic to get things moving.
If it visits regularly then you must have a problem. In 3 months, there should be more pages listed than that.
Do you have a robots.txt file set up properly?
You seem to be lacking any kind of meta tags as well.
Make sure Google IP's aren't blocked in your .htaccess. Check for any other potential problems with your .htaccess too.
It could be a combination of factors that are slowing the indexing down, assuming Googlebot is visiting at all.
Yahoo only has 2 pages indexed too.
http://www.lds-singles.org/urllist.txt being one of them. An old sitemap? That may cause some problems if the search engines are using that to navigate.
MSN has 87 but that's still not as many as there should be.
