It's been a bad day just wanted to vent on friends

[AdsenseGuy]

Today has been a bad day, We just found out that my wife was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma. Talk about depressing I dont usually vent about personal life with my friends on the internet but you guys here at NP are different, you all understand and have talked to me about personal stuff before. I am having a harder time with this than she is, I am worried about all the events that go along with this cancer, what if i loose her she is after all my best friend, I have even started to worry about how we are going to pay for all the medical bills associated with this that isnt covered by insurance. I am having a hard time even talking to her for fear of saying the wrong thing, I dont want to upset her. I am trying to be the strong one but here I am in my office writting this and almost balling because she means everything to me.

She seems to be holding up to the news like a trooper but i know deep down she is scared as hell, I AM. Life was just going so well for us lately. She has to take a leave of absense immediately as the doctor wants to schedule surgery and chemo right away. I know how much I hate even the littlest needle ( I know i am a baby) but she has always been the tough one im just scared that this may be to tough for even her. I have been reading about this for the last several hours and its scary stuff.

There is so many things running around in my head right now I dont even know what to say. I am not looking for sympathy from my friends I just had to get this burdon off my chest. I know she is strong and I will feed off her strength during this time. No need to respond to this like i said I feel a bit better by telling you all.

 

[Rob]

Thats really bad, but not as bad as it would have been 10 years ago, or even 5.

Medical science is so advanced now, she has such a large chance of getting through it, just got to think positive, even though its harder than it sounds.

 

[Sharpy]

Being strong is important. Your wife and you are in my prayers.

 

[Crusader]

Like sharpy said, be strong. You'll both get through this. I'll keep you two in my thoughts.

 

[RJ]

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife, AG. Wishing you the best.

 

[Coastalguy]

Thinking of you.

Be STRONG for her.

Please keep us updated,
ST

 

[AdsenseGuy]

Hi Guys

Thanks so much for your responses, it really means alot. I knew my friends at NP would understand me venting. My wife and I had a really good talk last nite, she told me we will just deal with things as they come and to keep going about my daily routine as much as normal. She is the strong one after all.

I really wasnt expecting any responses but you people are great. Today has started off much better. She is actually happy today and she is going to work to announce to her company yesterdays results and to get the time off she needs, Who knows maybe while she is off work she might want to get into domains.....But I doubt it LOL

 

[Jennifer]

AG-

A very good friend of mine was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma about 8 years ago. She had the surgury, and the chemo therapy... she was a little ill from the chemo, but other than that she pulled through it all perfectly.

Success always makes for a good story!

Today, she is considered "cured" and all that remains is a tiny scar on her neck, and a new lease on life

My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours-

Jennifer

 

[Badger]

Ditto, My best friend was as scared as hell when he was diagnosed the same (and i likewise I hasten to add) and this was regardless of the fact that he was told he had a very good chance of being cured.

I went with him most days for treatment, he lost a little of his hair and was permanently thirsty but from diagnosis to being told he was 'cured' was no longer than 6 months..

No one knows how you feel right now but a lot have been there before and are still here to tell the tale...

 

[Darkfire001]

Sorry about the news AG, Best of luck for you and your wife.

 

[Mr. Websites]

I hope everything turns out fine in the near future. We'll all be praying for you two.

 

[bensontwenty]

keep the faith Adsenseguy - in my prayers

 

[lotsofissues]

Guys,

http://namepros.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=41773

I think this thread is the ground work for a scam.

 

[Rob]

Thats quite an accusation... :o

 

[jstep]

Originally posted by Sharpy
Being strong is important. Your wife and you are in my prayers.

My thoughts exactly. God bless you.

 

[lotsofissues]

Originally posted by Rob
Thats quite an accusation... :o

It is. But look at the thread. His facade recently totally crumbled. He was wishing death upon another member.

 

[Wilfredo]

Just keep fighting it will a good experience after a few years. You can overcome most problems if you just never give up.

Were do you live ? Doesnt the goverment pay most medical bills?, they do that here anyway.

 

[Wanda]

We never know the "reasons"
when we are the one's dealing with the situation..

Just remember.. in all "times"... it is but a season..
And there is a "season" for all things...

may God grant you courage & wisdom.. in "ThisTime"

GodBless
WandaCox

 

[jroy]

best of luck to you and your wife

Lotsofissues,