Well first off Mickey Mouse its not a small world after all, its a very big world. A lot of people out there with agendas. The only people who care about what domainers think are domainers.
#1 I am still not sure that the term "Domainer" is a universal definition. Someone with 100 CVCV .info and Rick Schwartz are both domainers ? That's like saying Vanilla Ice and Frank Sinatra were both vocalists.
#2 There is no unity in this "industry" which I use loosely, I am not sure because I reg domains and you reg domains we are apart of the same team. There are people that reg adult names, I know plenty of people who despise adult and certainly do not want to be on the same team with those who own adult. Then there are those who own TM many big guys got their start there, legit now but used the tm to fuel the business.
For what Ms.Domainer is looking for I think the DNOA tried that, the ICA is being reformed according to Michael Berkens from thedomains.com. But getting everyone to agree is hard.
This is a subjective business, not objective. Every domain is unique. Put 1 name or 100 names up for appraisal and you will get 100 out of 100 different opinions. No uniformity.
Price also plays into everything. I agree with the comment some get pissed that someone won't sell a domain that supposedly only the prospective buyer would buy. But it costs $8 to hold. For someone in the 100 to 500 domain range, they probably can hold for a long time. Someone with 10,000 names probably needs to move some names.
Take a look at this week's sales report. I bet someone probably offered $200 for Backpage.net and got turned down. They then said that low life scum, that was a fair offer, its a .net, no real commercial appeal. That low life scum sold it for $10,000 this week. What about Xtips.com someone probably offered $100 on SEDO and got no where. Thought what a low life, who would want besides me ? The low life sold it this week for $5840. Its not hard to turn down $1500 even though its a great return on $8, not if you see greater value.
And for the developer, if you have a great idea the domain will not hold it back, greatness is not held back by a domain. Made up names such as Xerox,Google,Ebay,Yahoo,Delicious,Facebook,Twitter,etc........ Did not need the generic, Craig did not say I need classifieds.com, CraigsList worked fine.
I agree with some great comments here Carlton,SpareDomains,Fm1234. Carlton is right IMO that anyone with that comment is not rational. This is an easy business to get into, unlike real estate. So people at least think oh real estate the person is legit because they must have had money to get started in the business. I agree some prices are off the chart and not realistic, but people also say a pair of jeans should not cost $300 or a ball player should make $10,000,000 a year. Who says that ? Well lots of people, those who cannot afford $300 jeans, those who cannot play ball. Maybe its an intellectual elitist who feels they are superior to "some dumb jock" in their opinion. They cannot get over the fact they make $100,000 a year or less and he makes $10,000,000. Get over it, certain things have more perceived value, whether true or not. I certainly think a firemen does a hell of a lot more for society than a ball player, BUT society will not pay the firemen the salary they should get {IF THAT's POSSIBLE) considering the risk. So people will always complain about someone making money easier than them. When people hear a domainer brag, "I made $200 while I slept" some people think SON OF A B****. I work my ass off for $200.
Then you have the tech elitist, who either believe everything should be free or are pissed they did not reg everything in 94 when they were the only genius who knew about the Arpa Net.
For those that want all of this for free, I ask what do you for a living for free ? Will you build my computer and network for free ? Probably not.
I think you got to do what you think is right, I think a universal domainer group and agreeing on principle will not happen. I am not against it but I think too many opinions and it is a loosely knit industry that really only gets together for parties at the playboy mansion. Maybe there should be 400 domainers showing up at an ICANN meeting, stating their agenda. Maybe picket parking companies and Google demanding transparency.
I think a lot of people got into domaining because it seems "easy". Its not but people think it. They read DN Journal sales report and think wow.
There will always be the envious, the elitist and those trying to steal domains. Everyone needs to stay on top of their portfolio and have realistic expectations. Again IMO