I am also buying from secondary market, I did listen to them.
To me, this is a business. I see .tv as having huge potential. That means that even names that aren't the best will eventually have a market. Since I can't afford to pay the very high prices for great names, I am trying to get somewhat good names that by name alone are fairly self explanatory and have a tie to visual media of some kind. I am not buying things like barnforsale.tv which, in my opinion doesnt' really have a tie to video. I am buying things that, if developed, could have potential market value to an end user.
Quite frankly, telling people to only buy after market in the way some of you do is a huge put off to people because they can't afford the aftermarket. So they don't even try anymore and you lose not only a potential buyer, but a potential development deal. If you want to tell them to go to the aftermarket, at least do it with an explanation of why their names suck or could not in any way fit into a media market.
I am looking for appraisals, and direction on what I should be looking for, bearing in mind that not all of us can pay the high prices of the aftermarket. We instead need to find a few more because we can't buy just one and then sit on it for months until a buyer comes along. In my experience, if you aren't moving product, then you aren't making money.
All that being said, what I am doing is trying to get a decent sized group of names for sale, so I ask for opinions on what mine could be worth. If they are worthless, I look for more. I don't take it personally, I just move on to the next one.
It feels much safer to buy in bulk and sell one at a time. I want to recoup some of my expenses before I feel confident enough to move to a bigger name which I have to hold on to for long to get the best ROI.
Finally, at least I am constantly searching for better names that fit in my budget. I am not giving up, just moving forward. Most others would have left long ago after hearing "go to the aftermarket dumbell" ten million times. I'm there, I am buying a few, just not anything over $100 because I still am not 100% sure of how soon I can expect to see a return.
And I like sarkey comments, so meh.