Let me start out by saying that I like your base colors and the contrast they give; however I think you use too much of it. The only flair your website has, is the four pictures at the top; which are distorted and thus give+ an unprofessional feel, which is something people look for in a dating website.
Try swaping out some colors, such as your titles; try maybe a smooth red, or keep them white and make the blurb underneath them a red.
Also, when reading an article your google ads meld with what the user is reading. Try breaking a few lines in between.
Good Luck!