if someone could share a real experience in detail that would be very helpful
I've thought about this post and have to admit I find this problematic. Namely, web development is something that is ongoing and this is quite a competitive market. As soon as a successful site in a particular niche pops up, there are a number of copycat sites coming out. Such is the nature of business and also the nature of website development.
For this reason, personally I don't really want to go into the specific details of what steps I've gone through to make a given site successful. At the same time I will tell you that I beleive you are on the right track when asking for "newbie" strategies (I still consider myself a newbie as well btw) to developing a successful site. I doubt someone is going to be willing to hand these strategies to you but what *I* did was;
1) Develop a base on SEO and related web design (I read the two books search engine positioning by Marckini and search engine visibility by thurow)
2) Find some sites that were successful and reverse engineer them. Learn by
applying not just rote rehearsal.
3) Read read and read & interact! - webmasterworld, namepros, searchengineworld, DNF, dnjournal, +++
4) If you're lucky, find a mentor who can help you along the way and make sure you're helping them too. My "mentor"/friend is 6 years younger than me and studying in university. His help and forum community help has been absolutely invaluable though.
As an aside I really have to say that there is no quick solution that *I* have found. To make this work it takes a great deal of work. After 8 months my sites are only making ~$200.00 month but each month it's more than the last and each project is one step bigger than the last one. For me, I was very excited to receive my first affiliate cheque for $37 some odd dollars and watching the growth keeps me excited about going deeper.
At anyrate, ¥[ªo!