I'm just echoing others at this point, but I agree; hate is an ugly word.
Regarding the poll, I think both are fair game. When someone owns a domain, it's entirely their prerogative as to how much to sell it for. Maybe they receive many offers under their threshold and ultimately realize that with such demand, the name is ripe for development, so they decide to develop it. It's their name. More power to them. Or, maybe they grow old and the name grows old with them. If that's their wish, so shall it be. No point in hating it, or them.
Low ball offers are quite rational. To someone who understands the domain investor's mindset, it's a courtesy to aim within a range that will pay some respect to the owner, and to let the owner know you're a serious buyer. But for those who have never purchased a domain name from an investor, it makes sense to start as low as possible and learn from experience. Even when it's investor vs. investor, one might still want to lob a low ball out just to get a feel for the other party. It'll probably be a losing strategy, but it's a strategy.
I think if one is getting so emotional about offers and such that hate comes into play ...or even dislike... they have some work to do.