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not saying you don't have a right to complain. I used to be a loyal Moniker customer too, but since they were taken over they seem to be trying to overtake their customers. The DNS issue has affected many. My reason for replying is not to complain that you are complaining, just about how you are complaining
#1) If you're going to accuse, make sure you explain the whole story. Partial details only, and you both seem like a simple crying baby and make few understanding (or caring) jury members (NPers in this case).
#2) Don't threaten a company like Moniker with what you can't do to them (ie: make them pay to transfer elsewhere). You may not know the law, but guaranteed they know the law and the rules they have to go by!
#3) Make sure you know what you're threatening if you don't see the applicability of #2, and always read terms you're agreeing too incase of future events like this (see section
#17 of what you agreed to using them for domain registration). They are smart enough to always leave themselves a "back door" out of most situations. A good lawyer may be able to shut that door in their face, but not without it costing you more than its probably worth.
Hopefully, you and Moniker can work things out. If not, just move your domains out and "politely, but fimly" let it be know by those other "potential customers of theirs" what you think of Moniker. Raging mad attitude from a disgruntled customer makes the customer look bad, not the company, even if the company is wrong. Make yourself out like the nice, poor, respectful, professional, struggling webmaster who tried all he could to be nice as could be before finally just taking his biz elsewhere, and you'll get more accomplished, be believed easier later, be respected more, and you end-up being the "better man" in the situation.
Just things IMHO.