So you’re in the “all women lie about rape” camp?
No. Enough. Full stop.
You want to know why women dont immediately come forward and report to the police?
Women don’t come forward immediately because they’re afraid, traumatized, want it all to just go away. They’re afraid people won’t believe them. They’ve seen what happens when rape victims speak up. They’re afraid of social and community backlash for accusing some “fine young man.” So many situations it comes down to their word against his.
And right off the bat, YOU are assuming the guy is innocent.
When they do come forward, whether it’s immediate or years later they get sh*t for it. The victim is victimized again. Labeled a slut. Death threats. Forced to move. Harassment in social media and in person. Secondary abuse, and NO amount of money is worth that. WHY would anyone put themselves and their families through it EXCEPT for a chance to get closure by seeing justice done? And maybe keep other women from becoming victims of this person?
And even with a conviction there are judges who let these guys walk because they “don’t want to ruin their lives.”
Brock Turner - disgusting assault on an unconscious woman. Caught in the act by other men. 6 months plus probation.
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news...r-sexual-assault-brock-allen-turner-palo-alto
Here’s a judge who went easy on sentencing a convicted 16 yr old rapist because “he was from a good family.” What has THAT got to do with it? What are the odds that this guy will rape someone again? (The judge has since stepped down.)
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/n-j-judge-spared-teen-rape-suspect-because-he-came-n1026111
And a judge who basically told a rape victim to “close her legs” (she was seeking a restraining order, not a settlement.)
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-new...-told-alleged-rape-victim-close-your-n1028186
What did the incident do to the lives of the women they raped or assaulted? There is a ripple effect of collateral damage - depression, ptsd, inability to trust in a relationship, destroyed marriages...occasionally suicide...
Believe me, these incidents happen far more often than you guys seem to think. They’ve happened to good friends of mine. Probably to numerous women in your life too. Friends, friends of your spouse, relatives, friends wives and families, business associates.
No. On this subject you’re clueless and you don’t even know what you don’t know.
These men have no reason to fear acusations of rape or assault, ESPECIALLY from a professional who is meeting them in the course of doing their job, UNLESS they rape or assault someone. Simple as that.
It’s business. Its not like they’re out at a bar or picking up some rando.
I was kidding about the chastity belt, but maybe that’s the solution for these guys. If wife has the key they have an alibi.
