information I will never help another domainer

[uglydork]

So I have a guy hit me up with an unsolicited direct message asking me to buy a 3 letter domain -he did the same thing months ago with another name and I nicely said no.
He wanted 6 figures months ago and now 50k. It is a nice 3 letter but I am trying to sell Birdsnest.com and pacemakers.com right now so I’m tied up.
The guy keeps messaging me so I decide to help him out and I reach out to my big boy contacts - I try not to bother these guys unless it’s something good and out of my range.
This is on Monday - a holiday where I live. My big guy gives me a number and the seller doesn’t like it. Ok - don’t take it - goodbye. Nope - comes back with another number. I tell him my big guy won’t negotiate- he insists.
At this point I am a broker on this deal! My big guy literally tells me “ tell him to fuck off” and my big guy is in the middle of closing on a house. The buyer knows all this information and keeps pushing. He finally tells me he will take the big guys offer after hours of telling me he has had better offers. I’m shielding my big guy from all this nonsense to help the seller get a deal done - he seems desperate.
I literally tell him that the big guy is buying a house as we speak - he has to agree and then I will give you his email for escrow. I’m not giving out the big guys name or email to anyone or he will disown me.
He keeps pressing me for his address.
It’s a holiday - I’m off work - my wife is complaining because I’m ignoring her and the kids - it was the last 80 degree day in Buffalo for 7 months. The buyer is busy buying a house with his wife out of the country with a time difference.
I finally get the ok from the big boy to give him an address to start escrow. I DM the buyer the address and.......POOF! Not even a thank you. It’s been 2 days and I know Escrow closed - the last message is me giving him an email address and then silence.
I literally spent hours as a go between helping this seller - I had to keep a buffer or the big boy would have told him to kiss his ass and backed out.
I spent my day off helping someone and not even a thanks - if you read this - it’s normally 10% - you’re welcome- that was a big sale - enjoy you sale and money.
Don’t help people-

 

[bmugford]

Domainer or not, some people are just dicks.

Brad

 

[Recons.Com]

Domainer or not, some people are just dicks.

Brad

Some are proud dicks!

 

[hawkeye]

He said it in his first post basically. Big domainer, broker, the cussing, wife out of country, just bought a house. He literally posted a pic of himself holding keys to his new house on Twitter 2 days ago.

Yup. Saw that too. Gotta love the 'brought it to my big guy' line. Like he's the only one who knows him.

 

[wwwweb]

Some are proud dicks!

Only thing is this Dick, pays really well for domains.

Runners.com, SportGear.com, and SportsGear.com was purchased by them 5 years ago for $395K.

 

[poweredbyme]

I wasn’t trying to traditionally be a broker - just help someone who appeared to need some help

If you expect something in return, it's not a friendly help, it's business with a stranger. Your conflict is here.

The guy may not appreciate your "help" if he thinks he made loss for selling his domain for cheap. Domainers frequently fall in love with their domains and may regret or have mixed feelings after the sale. This might explain his silence. Human psychology is a complex thing.

 

[frank-germany]

I wasn’t trying to traditionally be a broker - just help someone who appeared to need some help

well looks like you did help him out..

you should be ok
you have done what you wanted

 

[xeroox]

Pretty sure besides the help or some compensation op expected at least a "Thanks for the help"

 

[Recons.Com]

well looks like you did help him out..

you should be ok
you have done what you wanted

Real altruists expect to be paid handsomely for their kindness ;0)

 

[Recons.Com]

Only thing is this Dick, pays really well for domains.

Runners.com, SportGear.com, and SportsGear.com was purchased by them 5 years ago for $395K.

Man, you always amaze me! A walking encyclopedia of everything that happens in domain world! Sometimes, I think you are an AI ))

 

[Josh R]

Well I don't think there's a person on this forum that doesn't know who the buyer is lol!

I assume the domain was probably WOD (dot) com.

Feel free to email me if you want another "big "smaller" guy" to run deals by.

 

[MSN-Domains]

You can't make this stuff up, the seller is the same "Small Guy" who was blowing smoke up Schwartz's jaxie for saying this

I am sure some domainers sold NNN.com domain for $1000, $5000, $25,000 or even $50,000. At each and every level, those domainers left BIG MONEY on the table. They were in a rush to sell. What else is new? I started pricing my NNN.com at $100k ++ back before it ever hit $5k. I watched them climb from nothing to $1 Million and some for even more.

3 letter domains are selling for around $25k-37k. Way too cheap!! 1/10 of what the prices should be and probably will be in the not too distant future. LLL.com domains are worth a MINIMUM $100k! Any less is weak. Selling too cheap. A unique asset to fill a unique need of something very specific and you pull your pants down??!! WEAK!

under 3-Weeks later seller get's premature ejaculation and sells for $27.5k

I for one, love the comedy value of this forum. That is all

 

[lambo.com]

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[MapleDots]

I'm going to play devils advocate here and say @uglydork did get something out of this.


Bet you think I'm going to say a lesson right?

Nope....

@uglydork got a 3 letter domain to someone looking to increase his portfolio. From the sounds of it he is a bigger player and deals in top end domains. By maintaining a good relationship and possibly procuring a domain for him you are building bridges. What matters here is not the dick you dealt with but the so called big boy that purchased the domain. In this business we have long memories and we know who helped who and who did what.

It's a small industry, with many rivers to cross, the more bridges you build the better off you are.

 

[wwwweb]

In past domain sherpas it looks like Booth usually brought him 3L and one word .com's, and paid him a small bounty for such opportunities. Looks like the seller was in a bind, and the buyer had the money to spend in one of their favorite niches, a perfect match. Given the sellers bind, they probably came out of it with less than they wanted, but had no choice, so they probably were counting all their pennies on that transaction. If they used escrow, you should have gone thru the broker transaction, and put your fee in there, and done the deal if it was Media Options they probably keep a funded balance there, so it would have gone pretty quick.

 

[uglydork]

In past domain sherpas it looks like Booth usually brought him 3L and one word .com's, and paid him a small bounty for such opportunities. Looks like the seller was in a bind, and the buyer had the money to spend in one of their favorite niches, a perfect match. Given the sellers bind, they probably came out of it with less than they wanted, but had no choice, so they probably were counting all their pennies on that transaction. If they used escrow, you should have gone thru the broker transaction, and put your fee in there, and done the deal if it was Media Options they probably keep a funded balance there, so it would have gone pretty quick.

It literally started out as a favor. Im not claiming to be a big insider who knows everyone - dont read into my post. I am only upset that I spent an entire day on something without a thank you. It has nothing to do with money.

 

[TRY]

You should at least send the seller an email asking if everything went fine with the sale. And any token of his appreciation would be appreciated.
At least that way there is closure regardless of his answer to you.

 

[Pierre Barnard]

Here we go - as always
Post at your own risk in this place

I think I need to clarify.

First off, I apologize. I had no right to flame you on a public forum. It was out of character for me and unprofessional.

I guess my frustration levels with domaining in general just got the better of me.

I should have known better.

Please accept my apology.

Pierre

 

[MapleDots]

I think I need to clarify.

First off, I apologize. I had no right to flame you on a public forum. It was out of character for me and unprofessional.

I guess my frustration levels with domaining in general just got the better of me.

I should have known better.

Please accept my apology.

Pierre

That took a lot of guts to say on a public forum, you just earned my respect

We need to help each other and remember we are all in in the same boat.

Good show @Pierre Barnard

 

[robert widener]

I think I need to clarify.

First off, I apologize. I had no right to flame you on a public forum. It was out of character for me and unprofessional.

I guess my frustration levels with domaining in general just got the better of me.

I should have known better.

Please accept my apology.

Pierre

DORK WASNT NICE ENOUGH TO RESPOND BACK

 

[frank-germany]

It literally started out as a favor. Im not claiming to be a big insider who knows everyone - dont read into my post. I am only upset that I spent an entire day on something without a thank you. It has nothing to do with money.

let me thank you for helping out a fellow domainer.

he may be busy buying a nice gadget and has completely forgotten to press the send button
in his long an winding thank you email.

thank you ugly dork

nobody knows the trouble more than me
when the wife is calling for attention
and you can't cope as you are helping a fellow domainer

thank you
thank you

Frank

 

[Hardheolar]

To the best of my knowledge. Even without any agreement with the seller on your cut after the deal is sealed, he ought to thank you at least.
He has closed any future deal between you two.

 

[Arfy]

This post is not accurate please update it with correct details. The deal didn't go through, the buyer pulled out at the last minute even after payment and auth code was sent. Escrow sent his money back too even though auth code was provided.

The deal never happened and no money was made - You can check whois. Either way a thank you should have been said to you for helping. I think the seller was a bit upset with the dealing falling through and he never got back to say thanks. I know the seller so this is fact. He has said he will be sending you a thank you message. He isn't a dick after all

 

[Arfy]

@uglydork P.s. the Escrow was cancelled yesterday only. You should give people a chance to respond before posting.

 

[uglydork]

The seller reached out to me after seeing this and we talked it out-
Just wanted to update

 

[uglydork]

I think I need to clarify.

First off, I apologize. I had no right to flame you on a public forum. It was out of character for me and unprofessional.

I guess my frustration levels with domaining in general just got the better of me.

I should have known better.

Please accept my apology.

Pierre

Pierre,
I was surprised, we always seemed to have a good relationship - absolutely accepted. We all get frustrated. I should have never started this post when I was frustrated, I should have waited a few more days.
I didnt respond earlier because I was sleeping! I am up at 4:30 am with the family - we go to bed early and up early for work.