CJ is the best so far, I think. Hope you'll get some good solutions regarding your problem with CJ.
About Yahoo Affiliate, yes it's really good. I got some significant income from it, but it's from CJ (AFAIK, Yahoo Affiliate is one CJ's most rewarded program).
I must admit, after clicking the links in your signature I was ready to hit the delete button, but there is no nudity or adult content that I have found. It's sexy and suggestive, but it doesn't seem offensive.
I'm still looking around your sites.
For problems I mean -- I'm still looking for problems. Research, to make sure no rules are being broken.
__________________ I support Children:Wish.org | MissingKids.com
I support Animals:SPCA.org | SPCA.com Jeff | Armstrong | Grrilla - First 3 inductees into NamePro's Hall-Of-Fame.