You aren't getting any warnings to let you know BFD is working, BECAUSE you've changed the SSH port.
Most automated scanners out there looking to crack SSH are going to check on the default port (22), and obviously won't check the others as it's a waste of time. Because you changed port, these scanners aren't hitting your SSH and as a result you're not getting the warnings.
Yes, you can try logging in manually with an incorrect password and this should flag up a warning.